WHY YOU HATE YOURSELF- TIMING

WHY YOU HATE YOURSELF -TIMING

     In this world we live in obstacles are bound to be present- they come in different forms and in different stages of life. in fact, obstacles seem like life's bestie- wherever you see life you see obstacles. However the way we handle these obstacles when they come our way is what is of utmost importance as this could determine to a large extent what we feel about us.
   We often feel the need to get things complete before we start a project; We always feel the need to get that money in large amount before we start up something; we always see the need to have a lot of well wishers, fans and people who will motivate us before moving to the next level. All these are great but let us not forget that in life we do not always get what we wish, we cannot always have what we desire, things are most likely not always going to be complete- WHY? Well that is because life is a jigsaw puzzle, we all need to put the pieces together to form something meaningful- some are faster at it by using the right rules others use the back door and still arrive at the same answer. however, be it not forgotten that there are checks to differentiate the legitimate ones from the dubious ones.
Permit me to inform you that i am still in control of my topic. We hate ourselves because we forget that despite the fact that we all use the 24 hour timing, we do not use it for the same things equally. In oher words, you use your wristwatch to compare another persons wall clock timing all in the name of "afterall it's all a 24 hour timing". without considerig the fact that one person might have turned the hands of the time. So when we seem to be lagging we hate ourselves for not meeting up instead of loving ourselves for not turning the hands of the clock. The thing about timing is that "your perfectly ticking clock seems slow when another persons clock is fast as a result of malfunction"
       If we begin to see that we need to work without blaming ourselves for the seeming imperfections and delay, we will build that right thinking that makes us appreciate and love ourselves.

                                                                                                                              LIPSCANE